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PEP #SecondChanceStories

Greg P.

Greg is the current In-Prison Manager for PEP at the Oliver J. Bell Unit. He is a graduate of  Class 7 the last, and according to Greg, the best class from the Hamilton unit. “I was released after spending 15 years in prison. Yes, it was a great feeling to be free after such a long time. But that elated feeling soon faded. I was placed on GPS monitor and told that it would be for a year, at the least. The restrictions placed on my movement was very constricting. I had to report once a week. I had to give an hour by hour itinerary to my parole officer, along with addresses of the places that I wanted to go. But that did not mean that I would be allowed to go to those places. My parole officer could deny them, just because. I was turned down to go to church on Sundays until I was able to obtain a letter from the pastor stating that I was allowed to attend, along with the service times. The funny thing about that is that my parole officer would not let me go to the church in order to ask for such a letter. Your classic Catch-22. I had to plot and plan just to go fill out job applications. I was riding the bus everywhere and that also had to be factored into the time equation. I am telling you this to show you that being released from prison isn’t all roses and puppy dogs. There will be some rough times. I, myself, went through a long period of self-doubt and depression. I was on the verge of giving it and going back to what I knew; alcohol, and with the downward spiral that went with that, prison. I didn’t know how to cope with this new reality that I was thrust into. I did pick up a coping mechanism, cigarettes. After not smoking for 12 years of my prison time, it only took me a month in the ‘Free World’ to pick it back up. Even when things started looking up and going my way, I held onto that crutch, and still do to this day.

Things did start to go better for me on my journey in this new reality. I have been ‘out’ for 12 years now. I am a happily married man for the past six years, we have two sons. We also own a house and two cars that are paid for. Everything doesn’t always go bad. I am going to tell you the secret to my success, and it’s not just following Jesus, although that did help me pull out of my depression. So, here it is, the big revelation on how to be successful in the ‘Free World’

DON’T EVER GIVE UP!!

We as a society devalue everything, from our moral standards to our currency. As a point of proof, let me offer this to you; how many of you can truthfully say that you will pick up a penny that you see on a sidewalk or in a parking lot? These thoughts started occurring to me when I found myself passing up a penny on the ground. Funny thing is that 10 steps before that penny, I bent over to pick up a quarter!

So when did we as a society stop valuing our own currency? I am of the belief that this is just a symptom of society devaluing everything and everybody in it. When was the last time that you said good morning to a total stranger and meant it? It is perplexing to me because when you genuinely say something nice and friendly to strangers, nine times out of ten, they will look at you as if there was something wrong with you. I was brought up with the strong moral belief that you show care and concern for others and you try to brighten their day. This is the devaluation of caring in our society.

So when did we as a society stop valuing people as individuals? I am of the belief that it is a result of political beliefs that people were devalued. We could not care less about the person down the street who is struggling to pay their bills and just survive. We tend to say things like, “thank God it isn’t me!”, and lose them from our consciousness. They are no longer a thought to us. Even if we are part of a “church”, we still tend to overlook these people even as we congratulate ourselves for “tithing”. I was brought up with the strong moral belief that you show care and concern for others. People matter! So let us get back to that core value!

In today’s society, everything is plentiful, so why are there so many hungry and homeless? As a society, we need to do better to help those in need. “but it is not my concern” is the mantra you will hear. “stop being a leftist socialist” they will say. In addition, I say to that, it is not about political beliefs, but about human morals and values. My story sums up this argument very succinctly. You see, there was a time when I was one of those “needy” people, who needed society’s compassion. I was released from prison after fifteen years. I am not trying to downplay this fact, but I needed help. I had $100 dollars to my name and told to go survive. If there were not compassionate people in society, I would be just another recidivism statistic. After twelve years on this side of the fence, I am thriving, and it is because of people who still have compassion for others. So even if I were not raised with those morals and values, why wouldn’t I lend a hand to those people in need, political and religious beliefs aside?

Therefore, I challenge you to bend over and pick up that penny. Just like people, they still have value. Show them that they have not been devalued.”

Dustin B.

Dustin was a graduate of the Estes “Redeemed” 19 class where he won the Business Plan Competiton and was voted as “Mr. PEP” by his classmates. Dustin was released in July of 2019 after serving 7 years in prison and shares his #SecondChanceStory with us. “I didn’t have any money besides the $50 gate money they gave me, I didn’t have a job, I didn’t have a car, I didn’t really have any prospects, but I wasn’t destitute. What I did have was a vision for the man I wanted to become and the life I wanted to have. I had a plan on how to get there and the skills to be able to do it, and above all, I had the unwavering and unshakable belief that it was possible and I can absolutely attribute that to my time in the Prison Entrepreneurship Program, they gave me all of those things.”

Victor C.

Victor is a graduate of “Triumphant” Class 21, he was released from prison 6 years ago and shared his story with us for #SecondChanceMonth “My life at one point crumbled. I lost my family, and was sent to prison. I knew two things, I had to fight for what I loved, and I needed to find my true purpose in life. PEP and volunteers along with the support of my family and the Lord’s blessings changed my life.

Today, my family is complete and by the Grace of God I am a small business owner running my own company. Truly grateful for the trials I was put through to be where I am today.

Transformation starts with you, give yourself a chance.”

Abraham S.

“It is very important for us to prepare mentally when we are behind those walls. Going through this great program teaches you to prepare and get mentally ready for our freedom but an epidemic like this was never in any of our plans. This is a whole different variable and a twist to life. Jobs are scarce, we can’t be around our family members. It’s a whole different style of life especially when you take into account that some brothers are doing this all while still being on parole and having strict stipulations. No amount of planning could have gotten us ready for this. We just have to understand that “our cheese gets moved” so we roll with the punches and lean on each other to get through all this. God has a plan and he will lead us to the light. It hasn’t been easy, and I’m not making what I could be making financially, but I’m taking advantage of an opportunity that may give me a better position in the future. I have to ride a bike to work because all departments in Texas are closed due to all this and I can’t get my driver’s license. But I’m going to get through it. We are all going to get through it. I thank PEP for that type of mentality.
 
I was kind of nervous to share this photo, not because I’m embarrassed but because I still have a long way to go my recovery. When I read the One Minute Manager it talked about affirmation. So I felt that not only was this a way to pat myself on the back but also to show who I’ve become. One of my favorite sayings was “Live life like there is no tomorrow” so I drank to the point of becoming belligerent. I let alcohol completely take control of my life. I wasn’t living a life, I was slowly killing myself. I was on a path of self-destruction and my selfishness was taking everyone I loved with me. Going to prison was the best thing that ever happened to me. I thank God for that he saved me and gave me a #SecondChance at life. PEP pushed me to a point I hadn’t pushed my self in my entire life. It put structure and shined a light on the morals I once had, all thanks to those “10 Driving Values”. For once in my life I was happy and it all happened in such a “dark place”.
 
Today I complete 1 month of being released but also a month of being sober and alcohol-free in the outside world where temptations are real, but for once I’ve made the decision to not drink. The rules of PEP and stipulations for parole play a part in this also but in reality, I’m choosing not to do this, I’m choosing to live a happy life and enjoy like if the was no tomorrow, sober and surrounded by my loved ones and great support of brothers who are now my family.”

Jacob R.

Our first #secondchancestory for #secondchancemonth is from Jacob Rosa, a graduate of the Estes “Soverign Kings of Winter” 2018 class. He was a drug addict for 9 years of his life losing his family and his hope…“I told myself and told God, God I don’t want to leave this place the same way I came in”. His prayer was answered when he was invited to the Prison Entrepreneurship Program. His life was transformed and his relationship with his family was restored.